We just put the girlies to bed, and Mark is laying with Ashlynn for a few minutes, because how do you turn down "Daddy, pwease cuddle wit me?" While all is quiet, I want to make sure to remember how sweet bedtime is these days.
The girls get about 30 minutes to cuddle with Mark and watch a show while I clean up the kitchen (and let the essential oils kick in!)
*A total disclaimer that at this point in writing last night, Ashlynn would not go to sleep, and it took 45 minutes of crying and cuddles to finally fall asleep. That is what I get for writing a post on the sweetness of bedtime!*
So...back to the bedtime routine, now that it is 7 am ;)
Once the girls show is over, Mark picks up Bay and I pick up Ashlynn. We stand in the hall between their rooms. The girls put their heads on our shoulders, and we have family prayer time. Some nights, Ashlynn will pray and want me to repeat after her. Other nights she will pray on her own. (This is all determined by whether or not she says Amen at the end.) Her prayer each night is the same:
God,
Pray Granny and Gaga boo boos all better. Thank Granny and Gaga boo boos all better.
Pray for my tooth and my little teeth. Thank my tooth all better.
Pray Gaga work. Pray Daddy's work.
Amen
After prayers, we all sing "Jesus loves me" together. Then we have an "Ashlynn Sandwich", aka a group hug, and kisses for all. Mark lays Bailey down while I get Ashlynn situated in her bed. Lately, every stuffed animal we own has been sleeping with her. Once Bailey is laying down (which is normally a quick and quiet process!), either Mark or I will lay with Ashlynn for about 5-10 minutes.
And then on nights like last night, she sometimes gets to cry on her own for a while in her room. Most of the time she exhausts herself pretty quickly though. It is crazy hard leaving your kid in their room crying, especially when they are verbal and crying about being scared or wanting you. But, we know that sleep is what is best for her, and sometimes that is the best way to get her to stop playing and give in to rest. We have a lot of prayers and talks at bedtime about talking to God when we are scared, and how we are never alone because God watches over us. One night, A asked if she could just go sleep at God's house.
I just love these sweet moments and routines. I know that someday they will not want us to cuddle or hold them while singing Jesus Loves Me, and I am eating up each precious moment...even in the hard, cry it out, scared of shadow and dinosaurs moments!